Let’s Talk Feminine Soul and Money
"You see, when we create from soul, we magically also create all our desires - abundance in #alltheways."
~Nicole Barton
Women often come to me with fears and doubts about how embodying their Feminine soul can actually benefit them in a tangible way. And I get that, as I have been there - I had doubts about this path, too.
There's a sense of "I feel called to the work of the Feminine but I really want to create a business and so my focus should be there." This was, in fact, my own feeling as I stepped into the path - "get me to my goal, fast".
And the thing that is missed in this belief is how the Feminine is the *most* powerful Creatrix; so without embodying her, we can't really ever create from love, soul and magic.
The ways that my women are used to creating in are the ways of logic, of force, of push - and often of looking outside of themselves for answers from others who will offer them a formula. This is the way of the Masculine. This is the way I was taught, as I did my MBA many moons ago. "Hustle hard, do what you're taught and you'll create money." And that's always an option. It was an option I tried for a long while, which only had me doubting my own possibility.
You see, the thing is, when it comes to creating a business from Soul, I've come to see that hustle doesn't cut it. I've learned that the hard way, over the years, feeling deep in my own failure for not being able to create a business I longed for as I created in Masculine ways. One of my deepest wounds was that of feeling I couldn't create the business that was in my heart. And I longed for money, too, which became my focus - from a place of shadow fear.
And, despite how unlinked it sounds, the remedy for this, truly, was only found in the deep embodiment of my Feminine soul.
I had done all the courses, and none helped me know how to create my life from soul. Yet, as I deepened into this path - as I learned to reconnect to creating from desire, flow, chaos, mystery, wisdom and love - magically, as a result, this is the only time when I began to fully be able to create my heart's deepest longing for my soul led life - and business.
Something significant changed in my embodiment of my soul. My focus shifted from money into who I was here to be and who I was here to deeply serve with the utmost of love and truth. And really, for me, now, there is no other way.
In walking this path, I've learned to create my life and my business deeply from my heart, from desire, from love, from soul - from magic. None of the ways I've been taught to create a business - but instead, the way of the Feminine.
And so, I surprised even myself this month when I found myself forgetting to celebrate a huge financial milestone in my business that I had last month.
I wouldn't normally share the figures as the Secret Witch (who doesn't know, or hides, her power and magic) can be motivated by fear of money and it's not where my focus is these days; to live from soul is the focus. But I'm breaking this rule just once as there's also a lot of doubt in my women that this path can create financial abundance. I also don't quite know what the figure is, as I've not completed invoicing, but it's 5 figures - which shows my liberation as I'd once have calculated it to the penny, in my deep anxiety about money.
You see, when we create from soul, we magically also create all our desires - abundance in #alltheways. It's just that they feel less important and more like added bonuses of the capacity to live from soul. And for me, now, the money is becoming a juicy bonus to the more important work that I am creating from soul - to me being the medicine I came here to be.
Creating this way - creating from the Feminine - has created abundance that I couldn't have even dreamed of being possible before walking this path. And yet, somehow, the more important thing is the fact that all of my life is being created from soul.
Living life from soul is so far more important to me these days that I even forgot to tell my own Soul Guide about this financial milestone.
The path of the Feminine (aka soul) offers all of your desires on a plate; but the juicier bit is who you become along the way.
And so, if you say to me "I just want to focus on my business, I don't need to embody my Feminine", I'll tell you, again and again: embodying the Feminine is the *only* way to create the business your *soul* came here to create. And even deeper, you are your business; your taking of your own medicine becomes medicine for others. This is my own deep learning, and one I'm continuing to lean into, over and over, and reaping the rewards in #alltheways.
If you want to explore how the Mystery of the Feminine can help you create your life - and business - from soul, reach out as we've just opened enrolment for Invoke Your Feminine Mystery and I'm offering Alchemy Calls to explore if it's for you. There are 8 total spaces, so it is an intimate circle, 6 spaces are available currently, and we begin in June. Link in the comments.
Are you feeling the call to the Feminine?
Much love
Nicole x