“But I can’t” = a call to your magical power as a healer, teacher or guide…

" I am here to help you create a life that is in total soul alignment with the healer, teacher or guide you were born to be - and ironically, I see that creating abundance happens as a direct consequence the deeper we step into alignment, but it’s a byproduct and bonus of the deeper richness of truly living your purpose."
~ Nicole Barton

"But I can't" = a call to your magical power...

Musings on the common money fear magical women who are here to be healers, teachers and guides often feel…

I hear so many women say "I feel so called to this... But I can't". And oh my heart do I understand that feeling more than you could believe.

I've felt the lack of possibility, the hopelessness, the trappedness in my life. I've felt the lack of belief in my own power. I've felt the mistrust in life and the need to micromanage and stay as I am. I've felt the tension, the tightness of the contraction.

And sometimes I still do.

The difference is, now, I'm also deeply embodied in the magical lens, which has a very different way of creation on offer - and I know how to choose back into that way of creating.

And I see that women mistrust that when they first even hear about it.

Some may have had some experience of it - which is often helpful, but they may not trust it fully being possible to be applied for creation of *all* of their lives. For others, I can feel them thinking: "what, so we can just hold a vision and manifest something impossible? Not likely". I've doubted that myself too.

And I'm not bypassing the fact that getting to the point where we can hold a vision *and* not allow our fear to get hold of it is *challenging* - I'm not saying it's an easy initiation; that's why it is "the work".

What I am sharing this for, though, is to say:

*There IS another way*

A way to create your impossible-feeling desires; a way to open to the possibility of you becoming a healer, teacher or guide and creating a life for yourself from it that is filled with the abundance, the soul-led-ness, the richness you long for.

To be more specific (though this is really relevant for *all* fears that arise) one of the common fears that often comes up when women start to lean in and feel the call is the fear of money, and a feeling of ‘lack of abundance’. And this is so welcome - it’s just simply illuminating a place where your inner little girl wants some love to be able to choose to create a new life….

And just to be clear, money isn’t usually the *why* of why women would choose my path; I’m not a business coach who is here to help you focus directly on “getting more money” - there are lots of ways you could do that, doing something completely unrelated to and misaligned with what you’re here for. You’ve likely been doing that for a lifetime in a mundane job you hate!

No, I am here to help you create a life that is in total soul alignment with the healer, teacher or guide you were born to be - and ironically, I see that creating abundance happens as a direct consequence the deeper we step into alignment, but it’s a byproduct and bonus of the deeper richness of truly living your purpose.

And whilst money is important not to bypass, especially in today’s society, it’s also helpful to recognise that often, there’s a deeper fear beyond it - often it is that of fully stepping into your Feminine power. An enquiry here, if money is a fear that comes up for you, is: what are your deeper fears, beyond that? What does money represent?

Yet what is even *more* important to consider, when you’re shutting down the possibility of opening to your purpose due to the fear of money is that there’s a cost to creating this way. The cost of living in alignment with our soul’s gifts - of becoming the healer, teacher or guide we long to be - might seem expensive - and yet, the cost of being OUT OF ALIGNMENT with your soul’s gifts may just cost you *everything*…

So my questions to you are:

How is not choosing to explore alignment of deepening into your gifts costing you?

And…

How long are you prepared to keep choosing to stay where you are?

I promise you - there's a way for you to become a healer, teacher or guide - to create a more meaningful magical life - *even* (and especially) when it feels impossible and terrifying. I know it, because I’ve been there in this exact fear.

There’s a way, even when you think "I'd love to, but I ‘can't’".

Because the only reason you feel you "can't" is because you *only* know *one* way of creation: the logical, linear mundane lens that says we have to push and force and make things happen - and there are limits to that.

Yet from there, you'll only create more of the same that you've already had (and say you don't want).

So here's the thing: if we are serious that we want to *truly* create what we say we *want* - aka a magical life - then we have to open our hearts to "the way" - a new way - the way of magic.

We have to choose differently.

We have to open our hearts to what's possible to create magically (and love the parts of ourselves that feel it is impossible).

And we can choose that with the utmost love for our little girls and their fear - and when it feels aligned.

Here’s a caveat: some women just aren’t ready to choose into that liberation, it isn’t aligned right now - and that’s ok - that’s welcome too. And when you are, I’ll be here to support and guide you. The work is to choose, consciously, to be okay with where you are.

Because the magical lens is a revolutionary paradigm shift from the mundane, forceful way of "getting things done" - it's a radical step into the way of magical Feminine manifestation and alignment with soul.

And it's one of the greatest lessons I've learned.

I can honestly say I would not be where I am now without learning this magical art and science of creative power.

That's the real medicine on offer in Rosa - the opening to a new way to create our lives, more magically.

The challenge is, we need to be willing to take her medicine and lean into the unknown in order to receive her medicine. Which is really how all *true* initiations are done.

So really, the question is: are you open to that?

And if you feel the call but are a bit scared, and aren’t sure, then please do message me with your fears, resistances, hesitancies - I’m here to support and love you, regardless.

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Here are also some resources that might help you to lean in:

Ep 60 - How to do ‘inner child work’ to open to your healing power - https://www.nicolebarton.co.uk/secret-witch-podcast/episode-60
Ep 38 - How to lovingly liberate your money fears - https://www.nicolebarton.co.uk/secret-witch-podcast/episode-38
Blog - Let’s talk Feminine soul and money - https://www.nicolebarton.co.uk/blogs-hidden/lets-talk-feminine-soul-and-money

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The modality I've birthed with Archetypal Apothecary is a healing paradigm in its own right for women just taking their first steps, AND it's also for those women who have *already* trained (or are training) in some other healing modality, to walk alongside that - a "complementary" therapy if you like. It's the path that helps you learn how to create more magical lives by learning to navigate the fear that arises in your "impossible-feeling" vision of becoming a healer, teacher or guide making impact, and love yourself enough to step into that vision, through the feeling of "I can't" and create it anyway.

Rosa offers the tender first step. She’s soft, nourishing and reminds you of your power to choose life differently. Even in the midst of the deepest darkest fears - about money, or otherwise.

I always say; choosing Rosa is our first initiation into magic.

Our Rosa crucible starts Thursday 20th July. Read more below - and claim your space, if you’re willing to tend your little girl and lean into the possibility of a “new way” to create and open to your deepest purpose…

www.nicolebarton.co.uk/rosa

All my love,

if you've any questions, send me an email.

Nicole

PS - and, if it helps, practically (because I’ve a real empathy for our humanness) - for anyone who is feeling the call and money is feeling really tight, then please do still message me to explore, because Archetypal Rosa is the very medicine that is so needed in today’s chaotic world - and I’m always happy to have a conversation to help co-create a way for anyone that feels a desire to join us to do so, if they are open-hearted and willing to co-create possibility. I mean that.