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Are you going to let fear of rejection stop you from creating a magical business?

Are you going to let fear of rejection stop you from creating a magical business?

Sharing, vulnerably, the deepest truth of who we are, courageously - is the most terrifying thing there is - And yet it’s also the most impactful thing we can do, if we are here to be healers and make a difference in the world. 

~ Nicole Barton

I was labelled “mute” when I was in my childhood trauma.  That label stayed with me for most of my life - I remember crying every day I went home from school and had been asked to speak in class, I hid from other children and kept myself to myself - armoured up, just in case I’d be rejected again (because my Dad left, when I was 4 and I was doing everything I could to not have that pain again).

And so, when I came to creating a magical business, it was a real journey of liberating my voice.

I remember firstly starting with writing - that felt safe, and I had a lot to say, so I started sharing on a blog.  And then came the social media criticism - 

The Universe isn’t going to choose alignment FOR you, my love.

 The Universe isn’t going to choose alignment FOR you, my love.

 In our business, if we wait to take action until we have clarity, then we will never have clarity - because it’s in the action and expression that truth is revealed.

~ Nicole Barton

Oof, that’s a bit of a potent and triggering one, if we feel into it honestly, isn’t it?  I meant it’s probably one that will mess with your spiritual paradigm for sure, so I’m here to love you in that.

And, I mean, on one hand, there is a truth that the Universe and spirit often does actually choose for us - because we’ve not taken the aligned action to choose for ourselves…

But is that REALLY how we want to be living?  Floating around, ‘seeing what happens’ and ‘waiting to see what clarity we get’ but not hearing any ‘inner guidance’?

Lost, confused in our transitions, without an inner sense of guidance?

Do you Struggle to Trust your Guides?

Do you Struggle to Trust your Guides?

 “ What’s more vulnerable to admit is I look back and see how I blamed them for that, instead of taking the beautiful lessons that came out of it and owning my power.  I had one really big initiation with this, in which I outsourced my power to a guide, and paid tonnes thinking that they would ‘fix’ my problems.  And the biggest takeaway I got from that was that I was giving my power away to someone else.”

~ Nicole Barton

Oh have I journeyed with mistrusting my Guides over the years?  And this is a really common fear that comes up when magical women are thinking about joining our Mystery School to discover their purpose + create a business from them.

I have had many a Teacher, Spiritual Guide, Mentor, Coach + Soul Guide over the years, ranging in investment from a few hundred pounds to tens of thousands - and in truth, when working with many of them, I’ve hit up against not creating what I wanted to create.

It feels vulnerable to share that - and against the grain when I’m here to guide women myself, but in my journey with guides from the self-help and personal development world I took away very little of what I’d hoped to gain.

Your Feminine Expression Liberation Survival Guide

Your Feminine Expression Liberation Survival Guide

 “ One of the challenges that magical women hit up against in creating their soul business is intimacy in their RELATIONSHIPS - where they fear their full expression not being welcome, and shut down. If this is a struggle, it’s really a sign we need to heal our Witch Wound.”

~ Nicole Barton

Here’s our survival guide…

Open your heart + lean in to your triggers- know that intimacy triggers are part of the process of your Divine Feminine liberation + welcome them with open arms to reveal more about how you can step into leadership from soul purpose.  Triggers are happening FOR us, not TO us.

Go gently on yourself - remember the key to liberation is LOVE - whatever comes up for you as a block as you learn to express yourself is wanting you to learn how to hold your expansion by being more loving to yourself - and lean how to be your full self in relationship.

How to Align with + Express your Soul Purpose

How to Align with + Express your Soul Purpose

 “ You’ve a unique set of healing gifts - your Medicina - that you were put here on earth to serve to the collective.  It isn’t your tools that are your gifts; it’s YOU.”

~ Nicole Barton

Realise that you were born here for a reason - you’ve a unique set of healing gifts - your Medicina - that you were put here on earth to serve to the collective.  It isn’t your tools that are your gifts; it’s YOU.

Set an intention - it sounds obvious, but if you’re not being intentional about aligning with your soul purpose, it won’t happen - let’s get specific.  Show up every day with an intention to align - and then it’s inevitable that you’ll become the woman you’re meant to be.

Which stage of Expression are you in? Good Girl / Rebel / Soul

Which stage of Expression are you in?  Good Girl / Rebel / Soul

 “ In the journey to true soul expression, we often move through different stages of relational healing until we arrive at true soul expression.  It’s not linear - it’s likely we will bounce around moving between the different stages - but it IS likely you’ll be in one of them more often then another. ”

~ Nicole Barton

Three Stages of Soul Expression - for Magical Business

These are three common ones that filter into the way we relate: Good Girl, Rebel, Soul

Are you Feeling Triggered by me?

Are you Feeling Triggered by me?

 “ In peeking, courageously, into that mirror she saw her own power to fully express her own magic.”

~ Nicole Barton

It takes a deep level of courage to choose into this work - often the choosing of the work itself is an initiation. And I'm here to love you in that.

I felt such a depth of love this morning for a magical woman who courageously opened to share with me, very powerfully, that she was feeling triggered by me. She's given me permission to share this, as it feels deeply serving.

Her message arrived to my inbox to let me know she was considering joining Naja, because she'd been feeling strangely drawn to it and was being nudged by magical synchronicity - a Snake arrived at her front door (she's not the first woman to share this)

It's not Soul vs Business

It's not Soul vs Business

 “If a union is to take place between opposites like spirit and matter, conscious and unconscious, bright and dark, and so on, it will happen in a third thing, which represents not a compromise but something new.”

~ Carl Jung

🔥💫IT’S NOT SOUL VS BUSINESS💫🔥

Something that magical women often fear is that they have to make a choice between living from soul OR creating a business. As if the business side of things will have them quivering in the corner, a nervous, burdened and burned out mess.

And I saw this week that one of the gifts I've not yet owned very boldly out loud as part of my soul-business support is my branding and PR expertise. 

Do you Need to Cultivate Connection to your Womb?

Do you Need to Cultivate Connection to your Womb?

  “Our wombspace is one of the portals to our souls - so it’s critical to connect with our wombs when we are journeying more deeply into our true expression - into the highest potential of our souls. ”

~ Nicole Barton

⭐️🐍Do you Need to Cultivate Connection to your Womb?🐍⭐️

Our wombspace is one of the portals to our souls - so it’s critical to connect with our wombs when we are journeying more deeply into our true expression - into the highest potential of our souls.  Here’s a simple exercise to begin to harness Archetypal Snake energy + connect into your womb:

This is My King

This is My King

 "One of the most calming and powerful actions you can do to intervene in a stormy world is to stand up and show your soul. Struggling souls catch light from other souls who are fully lit and willing to show it.” 

~ Clarissa Pinkola Estes

♥️👑THIS IS MY KING👑♥️

Living our medicine requires the same as us as it requires for us in relationship - full, true, vulnerable expression. To be our gift requires us to be open, honest and courageous. To have the devotion to unite with our souls. 

Because 'like cures like' - and for people to be able to see us as the medicine, they need to be able to feel our hearts and see our own alchemy. 

Living from full expression of soul requires Naja 

Trusting Our Medicine Guides

Trusting Our Medicine Guides

 "It is the privilege of a lifetime to become who we really are."

~ Carl Jung

✨🍄TRUSTING OUR MEDICINE GUIDES🍄✨

I'm feeling the enormity of my vision at the moment and yet, I've shifted - in my choice to own my power - from a sense of shadowy overwhelm (because, let's be honest, I've got soooo much to tell you about my modality and how it works) into a sense of pure excitement. 

Discovering Our Gifts vs Our Medicina

Discovering Our Gifts vs Our Medicina

“So we can chase all the gifts we like, chalk up all the experience in the world of new skills, but it's invoking + living our MEDICINA that makes the deepest healing impact on Earth. “

~ Nicole Barton

🌹⚡DISCOVERING OUR GIFTS VS OUR MEDICINA⚡🌹

Something I've come to see in the last few years is that there's a huge difference between knowing our GIFTS and knowing our MEDICINA. 

Mostly, until I discovered the path of soul descent, I had been searching very hard, externally, for my GIFTS.

Why I've Created Naja

Why I've Created Naja

“Naja will hold up a mirror to reveal things you’d not seen, and invite you into Feminine magic so that you can create your heart’s deepest desire to be in service as MEDICINE.”

- NICOLE BARTON

🐍🧙‍♀️WHY I’VE CREATED NAJA🧙‍♀️🐍

The Witch needs to take her own medicine to heal her wounds.  Our Archetypal Apothecary is for Witch’s ready to dive into their souls, do the deep shadow work that will help them reclaim the lost fragments of their souls and become who they were born to be.

And Naja is the first Archetypal Remedy we’re birthing - she’s the sensual, Feminine, hypnotic, ANIMAL of the Snake - she helps you shed your skin of all old ways of hiding your true self that are old and dead and helps you begin to own, with the deepest of love, your authentic voice, your full magical expression and you Femininity, so you can truly open to birthing + actualising your soul business.

Healing The Leader Wound

Healing The Leader Wound

“People are silently begging to be led.”

~ Jay Abraham

🧙‍♀️👑HEALING THE LEADER WOUND 🧙‍♀️👑

"People are silently begging to be led." Jay Abraham

I was reminded of this quote the other day and it made me laugh as my experience has not always been that of wanting to be led. And neither is this true of my women at times, when they are in their Leader Wound.

Throw Away that Self Sabotage Beaty-Stick

Throw Away that Self Sabotage Beaty-Stick

“Love is the missing alchemist in much of today's personal development world. And it's the KEY ingredient in REAL MAGIC + shadow work. When we see that our patterns are unconsciously - innocently - being created from some story of our little wounded girl, only then can we choose to soften and see what's really there. ”

~ Nicole Barton

🪄🖤 THROW AWAY THAT SELF SABOTAGE BEATY-STICK 🖤🪄

Let's cut through the social feed and get really - lovingly - honest for a moment.

One of the major reasons powerful women have big visions - to create freedom via businesses from their gifts - and yet they continue to PLAY SMALL (despite knowing that they are here for more) is that they self-sabotage.

“Careful, You’re Becoming A Narcissist”

“Careful, You’re Becoming A Narcissist”

“In my lack of defenses and curiousity about what this triggered for him - magic occured.”

~ Nicole Barton

⚡🖤"CAREFUL, YOU'RE BECOMING A NARCISSIST" 🖤⚡

I received this message in my inbox last night, from a man I once knew.

If you know my teachings about Feminine power, you'll know that I teach from a lineage with a deep reverence for the Masculine - I'm open to recieving the Masculine's provisions, rather than rebelling against them - and I see Men as Kings. 👑

“My Gifts Feel Too Big For Me”

“My Gifts Feel Too Big For Me”

“As we more deeply devote to our Feminine soul, and expand into love, and though the challenges become greater, it does actually become more easeful if we choose it that way.”

~ Nicole Barton

🌹⚡"MY GIFTS FEEL TOO BIG FOR ME" ⚡🌹

I remember the first really BIG time that my little girl kicked off and melted down about me fully choosing to step into my gifts to create a legitimate business from them.

The first time my 'hobby' business - my spiritual gifts - became professional, serious, a real thing that I chose consciously to OWN that way.

The Tug Of War Between Muggle vs Magic

The Tug Of War Between Muggle vs Magic

“Outside of the lens I teach, it can really looks like there's an EITHER/OR. You're either Magical or you are Human.”

~ Nicole Barton

✨🧙‍♀️ THE TUG OF WAR BETWEEN MUGGLE VS MAGIC 🧙‍♀️✨

I have been speaking a LOT to common issues of perfectionism, burn out and imposter syndrome recently. And I'll be honest, that's because us spiritual leaders can really struggle with these things on a daily basis.

We are HUMAN.

I Want Scientific Evidence

I Want Scientific Evidence

“Your over reliance on logic and linearity is what has had you burn out in your professional career - and had you open your heart to spirituality and magic in the first place.”

~ Nicole Barton

✨🧪 "I WANT SCIENTIFIC EVIDENCE" 🧪✨

One of the biggest blocks that magical women hit up against when wanting to more deeply own her Spiritual gifts and create a legitimate professional business from them is their own BRILLIANCE.

By that, I'm referring to the intelligent parts of them that have learned to over-rely on logic and the linear structures of society.

Healing The Leader Wound

Healing The Leader Wound

“People are silently begging to be led.”

~ Jay Abraham

🧙‍♀️👑HEALING THE LEADER WOUND 👑🧙‍♀️

"People are silently begging to be led." Jay Abraham

I was reminded of this quote the other day and it made me laugh as my experience has not always been that of wanting to be led. And neither is this true of my women at times, when they are in their Leader Wound.